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Lifestyle - 10 steps to a happier you

Hey lovelies,
recently I have been thinking about happiness and why we are never content, always thinking if I was "xyz" I would be happy or if only I looked like "her", and it's ok for her she's got this that and the other. 
Well you know what, we are in charge of our own happiness and the sooner we realise that the better.

Here are my 10 steps to a happier you;

  1. Stop being so hard on yourself, it's ok not to be a modern day wonder woman.
  2. Take time some time out and RELAX, read a book take a bath, paint your nails, it doesn't matter what it is just chill.
  3. Stop comparing yourself to others we are all different and their life might not be as "perfect" as you think.
  4. If you have a dream, take steps closer to pursuing that dream,
  5. Make plans for a trip or night out, it's always good to have something to look forward to.
  6. If you hate your job, take steps towards finding a new one.
  7. Distance yourself from people who make you unhappy or make you feel bad about yourself.
  8. Say NO occasionally you don't always have to be that work colleague or friend that is always doing everyone else a favour.
  9.  Put yourself first for a change, it's ok to do something you wanna do.
  10. Remember to be you, not someone your family, boyfriend, friend wants you to be.

As I've got older I've learned to stop worrying about what everyone else thinks, they will think what they think you can't change that, and it's ok to distance yourself from people who you know longer wanna be around, friends that always put you down or never text unless they won't something, you don't have to put up with that sh*t, dust yourself down and move on.

What makes you happy?

1 comment

  1. Thank you ever so much for sharing this wonderful post, it's exactly what I needed and has made me feel so much better :).

    Have a lovely weekend dear, El xxxx


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